21 Christmas present ideas for kids with autism

21 Christmas present ideas for kids with autism

It’s that time of year again when autism parents all over the world start to panic. What on earth am I going to buy my kids for Christmas this year?

Often our children are unable to tell us what they would like, or unable to make a list for Santa. Add to that all of the changes and disruption to the regular routine the Christmas period brings, and it can be a really difficult time for the whole family.

All we really want as parents is for our children to enjoy this time as much as possible, and to be able to give them some presents that will put a smile on their faces.

Friends and family call you and message you asking what they should buy them. It’s hard enough to come up with something you can buy, let alone what others can get them too!

In my case neither Tommy or Jude have any concept of what Christmas is, let alone be able to come up with a list for Santa. They are unable to communicate what it is they would like, and they don’t really understand what presents are. Gifts that you might buy for other boys of their age they are completely uninterested in. They get left unopened for days and often never used.

So, finding the right Christmas present for an autistic child can be difficult, and requires a lot of thought. Here’s a few ideas to try and make the process a bit easier

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Mini Trampoline:

Jude and Tommy both love to bounce, and are always on our large outdoor version. With the cold and wet days we have in the UK at this time of year it means it’s out of action a lot of the time, so this indoor version is the perfect replacement. It gives them the sensory feedback that they crave and it’s good exercise too. One item we can’t live without

Mermaid Cushion

This was a success last year, Tommy had really enjoyed playing with it. The way the colours change, combined with the sensory feel they’ll get from moving the sequins, looks like a lot of fun. There’s lots of options to choose from in all kinds of colours and sizes too.

Kinetic Sand

I bought some of this for Tommy two years ago and it was a big hit. Just scrunching it together and letting it drop through his fingers has brought hours of sensory joy, and it’s relatively easy to clear up! There’s all kinds of moulds you can buy with it too so you can build lots of different things. 

Tuff Tray

If you’re going to be buying the Kinetic Sand, or your child just likes taking part in messy play, then these trays can save a lot of cleaning up! We all know how messy sensory activities can get! They can be used inside and outside, so perfect to take out into the garden when the weather’s better and play with water, sand, foam, etc

Ocean Wave Projector

If your kids like lights and music then this could be the perfect gift for them. They have a number of different settings and colours and can transform a dark room into a sensory haven. Something like this will definitely be on my list for Jude or Tommy and help make their playroom a more sensory area.

Fidget Stretchy Toy

This has been a regular stocking filler for the last few years, both Tommy and Jude love them. They’re perfect if your kids like to flap, spin and twirl, and also can be relaxing to pull and stretch. Also safe for any of our kids who like to mouth objects. Will be adding these to the list again

Giant Bean Bag

This is definitely something I am getting this year for the playroom! It’s the perfect spot for the Tommy to lay back and read his books, or for Jude to watch his iPad. A beanbag gives that feeling of pressure when you sink into it that so many of our kids crave. Again, there’s all kinds of shapes, colours, materials and sizes you can get, so think what would suit your child best.

Gorilla Gym

Tommy is a real sensory seeker, craving large amounts of physical feedback you get from climbing and jumping off things. This Gorilla Gym could really work for him. It has a number of different attachments that can all be fitted to the frame of your door without causing any damage. He can climb and swing away as much as he likes, all in a safe space. One of the pricier items on the list, but one that might make a big difference for Tommy

Body Sock

I’ve heard rave reviews about these from other parents, and recently tried one myself whilst on a course. When you’re inside them they give you that deep pressure and proprioceptive input that so many of our kids crave. Jude has been using something similar at school so I’m going to give this a try


I don’t know how I’d get through the days without an iPad for Jude to have with him. It gives him a sense of independence, and really helps him to relax. He’s taught himself how to access all of the cartoons and music that he likes and be in complete control of it. Autistic children all over the world use their iPads or tablets to help keep them calm and regulate, especially when faced with a sensory overload, or social situations that can make them anxious. So if you don’t have one already (or if like me you need a spare) then a tablet can be a good addition to the list this Christmas. Amazon do a great kids tablet, with an amazing warranty for any damage!

Wireless Headphones

If you’re getting or already have a tablet, then a set of wireless headphones could be just what you need as well (provided your child will wear them!) Perfect for car journeys, or even at home, allowing them to block out the noise and potential sensory overload that may be surrounding them. Also has the added bonus that you don’t have to listen to the same 10 seconds of a song, over and over and over 😊

Fidget Cube and Fidget Spinner

I’ve tried both of these with Tommy and Jude but they haven’t shown much interest. However they are extremely popular and have been a great help for many others on the spectrum. They can help reduce stress and anxiety and focus the mind, all whilst being a fun toy to play with

Chewigem Sensory Necklace

Lots of our children crave sensory feedback that comes from mouthing objects, especially if they are anxious. Chewigem has a whole range of chewy jewellery and fiddle toys that are safe, easy to clean, and provide the stress relief our kids are after. Their modern designs also mean they can meet our children’s needs discretely without looking like a disability aid.


If you’ve been following our stories for a while you’ll know just how much Tommy loves puzzles. He’s very particular about which ones he likes (usually characters he likes, or letters and numbers) and within a few attempts he does them upside down, back to front, anything to make them harder. Lots of other autistic children enjoy puzzles too, that sense of order and of completion can be very satisfying. By finding ones related to their special interests they can also be very motivating too. Lately I have been getting wooden puzzles for Tommy. They seem to last longer as the pieces can’t get ripped up (which he also likes doing at times!). My other money saving tip is to take a look in your local charity stores. I’ve bought lots of puzzles this year from them, some as cheap as 50p, and with how often they get ripped up or pieces lost, they’re a real bargain!

Sensory Basket

For the last 3 years I’ve made Jude a sensory basket. He’s never showed much interest in opening presents, and this way he can see what’s there and explore for himself whenever he’s ready. I fill it with various little toys that either light up, make sounds, or are interesting to touch and squeeze. The great thing is more and more stores are producing toys like this so you can fill a basket quite cheaply now too. A quick search of ‘sensory toys’ on Google or Amazon will also give you lots of ideas.

Magic Tracks

Neither Jude or Tommy have ever been that into toy cars. But this might be something that would catch their attention. Tommy used to enjoy building a train track when he was younger, so might enjoy this too. Plus the cars and the tracks light up, providing some great sensory stimulation at the same time. It could be perfect in their playroom with the lights off

Foot Spa

Not something you’d automatically associate with buying a kid for Christmas, but this has lots of sensory benefits for our kids. Jude has one at his mum’s house and loves it. It can help our kids relax, and also encourage them to sit still for a while, and maybe take part in another activity whilst using it. (Plus there’s the added benefit that you might get to use it too!)

Bubble Tubes

These are a big hit and a main component of sensory rooms around the world. There are many different options, sizes, and colours that you can get, which obviously vary in price too. One tip given by many parents is to use a wall bracket to secure them and prevent them being tipped over and broken!


We’ve had a few of these over the years which Jude and Tommy have both loved. I’ve had great fun chasing the boys around, tickling and biting them with the puppets. The great thing is they promote interaction and can lead to some lovely 1-1 time with our kids. The Puppet Company has a huge variety of animals and colours too


Both Tommy and Jude have loved bubbles ever since they were babies. They are a great sensory and interactive activity you can play with them. These days there’s all kinds of options, from the regular bubbles pots, to machines, wands that create huge bubbles, or even bubble guns.

Sensory Bottles

For those of you who have a creative side, why not make your very own calming, sensory bottles. There’s 100’s of ideas out there and they’re pretty simple to make. They’re great for sensory play, and have a wonderful calming effect. The ones below I found over at Rhythms Of Play who has a guide to show how she made them too.

So there you have it. Hopefully there’s an idea or two here that might make the perfect Christmas present for your autistic child. If you have any other suggestions feel free to add them to the comments

Merry Christmas everyone!


1 Comment

  1. Susan Banks
    November 27, 2019 / 9:18 pm

    Thank so much, some great sensory ideas. Always very limited as to what get for our Granddaughter, a great help,😊👍